Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Eleven: Your Questions, part 4)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 2 November 2022
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, these are even listeners. This is chapter 11 in my deep dive on apologies and forgiveness. |
| 0:05.4 | And I want to remind everyone to think about the following four things, to think about |
| 0:10.2 | what you would like to get an apology for. You know, someone has transgressed upon you |
| 0:15.8 | in the past, recent or in the far past. What would you love to receive an apology for? |
| 0:21.7 | Whether it's your parents or your friend or your spouse or someone, even in your own kids, |
| 0:26.6 | a coworker, people who have transgressed upon you. And I'm guessing there's at least a few |
| 0:33.4 | things in there that are pretty big. Like, I wish my dad would apologize to me for that thing |
| 0:38.0 | that he did 30 years ago. You know, there's a lot, and some of you might have endless lists of |
| 0:44.2 | transgressions that you deserve apologies for that you would love one for. So think about that. |
| 0:48.5 | Also, think about apologies that you have received, whether they were good or bad. Maybe think about |
| 0:54.1 | a really good apology that you have received. So think about that. Also, the third thing, |
| 1:01.2 | think about something that you should apologize for, something that you want to apologize for. |
| 1:06.1 | Another way to phrase it is, think about what you would love for forgiveness for. |
| 1:11.5 | And then the fourth thing is to think about what have you apologized for in the past. A good |
| 1:17.7 | apology about apology. How did apology go? You know, think about it. Maybe take some notes, |
| 1:23.2 | and as we're going through this whole deep dive, go back to that because I think that'll |
| 1:28.3 | ground you in the experience because if you have your own experience as a draw firm, I think it |
| 1:32.9 | helps to contextualize everything. Okay. So in this chapter of the deep dive, I'm going to continue |
| 1:39.8 | to answer your submissions to a survey that I sent out about apologies. And I asked everyone, |
| 1:46.6 | if they wanted me to apologize to them for something. And a handful of people actually asked |
| 1:52.3 | me to apologize to them as the podcast listener. And so Emily actually submitted something on |
| 1:58.6 | the survey asking me to apologize to her. So let's get to that. So let's read this here. |
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