Hi everyone I'm Brinay Brown and this is unlocking us.

And guess who I have with me this week?

Y'all say hi.

We're back.

My sisters are here. We are coming back to do a follow-up to the Summer Sister

series on the gifts of imperfection because we got a lot of questions in the

comments on social media and so we're gonna try to answer as many as we can

before we jump in let me just you, let me remind you about Ashley and Barrett.

And now our lives have changed since the podcast.

I will tell you, I mean this is probably a warning, like you know we're cussy to begin with but

Holy shit we are ass high and taking care of kids and massive transitions right now and we are really knee-deep in some parent caregiving.

How y'all feeling? I'm tired.

Ashley wasn't going to retake the wholehearted inventory so she could just see how it changed from the summer and she can get through it.

I was like 50% 50% yeah I know like we're in a I don't know we're in a tough spot

let me tell you a little bit about Ashley and

before we get started. Ashley when she was five came downstairs from school.

Oh I'm not reading the bio I'm just telling you all the story actually.

Ashley when she was five and when Barrett was five, obviously,

identical twins, came down the stairs for the first morning of kindergarten.

And Barrett had on cutoffs and tube socks and a flannel and two braids and like high top tennis shoes getting ready to take the court. She was a baller,

still a baller, my pickleball partner, so she's total baller.

Ashley came downstairs with her hair loose in locks, a hat, a dress, patent leather shoes,

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