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Heart of Dating

HOD Select: Legalism and the Culture of Shoulding

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2023

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Kait not only tells her own story and experience with legalism in her church life, but also how we can embrace purity AND sexuality in a God-honoring way.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Heart of Dating Podcast.

0:04.0

Hey, it's Kate.

0:07.0

I'm so glad you could join us this week as we try to entangle the ever-so ambiguous

0:11.0

world of dating as a Christian.

0:13.0

Over here on Heart of Dating, we get real as we answer some tough questions

0:17.0

and uncover transformative ways to approach Christian dating.

0:21.0

Oh, and you better believe we have some laughs along the way,

0:24.0

because last time I checked, the struggle is hashtag real.

0:29.0

Now, let's get to the heart of the matter.

0:37.0

Hey fam, it's Kate.

0:39.0

Surprise, surprise.

0:40.0

We are in a season break for the Heart of Dating.

0:43.0

However, we still have new episodes coming to you every week.

0:47.0

And this episode is all about legalism and the culture of shooting.

0:52.0

And this is a solo episode.

0:54.0

I'm the only one talking, me, myself and I.

0:57.0

And I really share a lot of my story.

0:59.0

And if you've read my book, you probably read chapter three, never have I ever.

1:03.0

And in this chapter, I talk about my journey growing up in purity culture.

1:08.0

And just the shame that I went through that also led me to really bad

1:14.0

situations in my life.

1:16.0

And one thing that I learned was this concept of shooting.

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