Savage Lovecast Episode 881

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

A woman is enjoying a new friends-with-benefits relationship. She booked them an airBnB, but he had to cancel because his mother had a stroke. Now she feels insecure about him. Should she keep reaching out to try to make the tryst happen? Or wait and give him space? Is he lying about his mother? A sub, masochist woman is into intense head-trips with her dom online-only play partner. He went too far into violent story-telling until she had to end the session. He responded kindly and appropriately with after-care. But now she wonders if he’s a genuinely bad person. On the Magnum, Dan chats with culture & lifestyle writer Darshita Goyal about the Facebook group phenomenon “Are we dating the same guy?” Is this an empowering whisper network for women? Or an on-ramp to cyber-bullying? A woman and her boyfriend are in an open relationship where they are each allowed to have sex with other people, but sleepovers are verboten. He got together with a hottie and she ended up sleeping at his house because he didn’t have the heart to wake her up and send her packing. He violated their rules, but are the rules too harsh? [email protected] 206-302-2064 Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get 20% off ALL mattress orders and 2 free pillows at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE, and use the offer code Savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.
0:23.1	You know those how it started, how it's going memes,
0:25.8	they're usually visual jokes like those me reaping, me sowing memes or those
0:31.0	fuck around and find out memes. Basically to qualify for how it started or me reaping or
0:36.4	fuck around meme, you got to pull some shit you thought was clever and then you thought you
0:40.9	would get away with and then get your ass handed to you. Before social media came along,
0:46.5	before memes became fodder for viral visual jokes, we used to call this shit getting your
0:51.6	comeuppets, being hoisted by your own pitard. Well, the pro-life movement, they're reaping it
0:59.1	now and they are reaping it hard. They fucked around their finding out. We all remember how it started.
1:07.2	They fought for 50 years to strip women of their constitutional right to control their own bodies,
1:12.4	to make their own decisions about terminating a pregnancy, and they did it. They got Roby Wade
1:17.5	over turned for the dobs decision a little more than a year ago, returning the regulation of
1:22.0	abortion to the states. And how's that going? Well, the New York Times reported this weekend,
1:28.6	legal abortions most likely increased in the United States in the first six months of the year
1:32.9	compared with 2020 and analysis of new estimates shows as states with more permissive abortion laws
1:39.0	absorbed patients traveling from those with bands and access to abortion pills via telemedicine
1:45.4	continue to expand. All right, for the record, I think it's better when people don't need to get
1:49.4	abortions because they were using contraception or the men involved were taking author Gabriel Blair's
1:55.6	advice to ejaculate responsibly. That is the name of her terrific book ejaculate responsibly.
2:01.5	That is her message to men. She was a guest on the show. Everyone, particularly everyone out there
2:06.3	with a penis should read her book. So one year after repealing row, Americans are having more abortions,
2:13.8	not fewer. Why? Well, I don't think women and other people who need abortions are getting abortions
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