All right, so I'm getting grilled. It's one of these nights where I thought it was going to be a nice night just with me and the Mrs.

You know, this was a couple of years ago and I thought things were going well but you know I sometimes I expect this to be grilled like this because I spent so many years lying and drinking and hiding it and everything like that.

So she's coming at me with like, where were you?

It seemed like it took you a while to get off of work and all this stuff.

Is this a past girlfriend or you more recent one?

This is a past girlfriend.

Yeah, like I said, this was a couple of years ago. But I just remember this because I was getting I was

getting the business you know and she was just like it took you a little bit longer

off of work you know now I was just like hey I know I know I used to do sneaky stuff like after work or whatever but sometimes I'm just going to have to stay into work later

That's reality I try not to be defensive though. Honestly trying not to be defensive about it because I know she's she's earned this right and

she's intentionally earned this right because I was drinking.

Okay so.

So you were drinking.

So I was drinking but the audacity. The audacity to know. So anyways, so I think I'm going to be pretty good though.

So you're actively drinking, but you're getting questioned by your girlfriend.

Unfairly.

Completely fairly.

Here's why.

No, here's why. Because I was prepared.

So I got all the ways that I would like hide everything because she normally like at this point in our relationship

She'd just be like you've been drinking because this because of your eyes but clearly that wasn't the case because I had used enough clear eyes and I didn't drink that much.

All right.

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