Would You Date Someone You Don’t Want To Marry? ft. Ella Rose McFadin

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 1 January 2023

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

On today’s episode, I sat down with content creator Ella Rose McFadin. We discuss breaking up with someone when you live together, green (and yellow) flags in her current relationship, why her boyfriend was slower to make things official, sister dynamics when you have a similar job, tea from influencer trips, overcoming insecurity, her style icon, the worst thing she’s read about herself, what she doesn’t show online, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss 90/10 in its entirety.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.1	Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I cannot believe it's 2023.
0:13.0	What a year. What a year. I feel like so much happened in this past year.
0:18.8	Like for me personally and just it was it was a crazy one. So I hope everyone had a really nice time
0:26.7	celebrating. If you didn't celebrate, I honestly that's probably more fun than what most people
0:32.7	did at some stupid party. But happy 2023, happy January 1st. Today's episode is with Ella Rose.
0:42.7	Ella is I actually first discovered her on TikTok when she would make these just cute videos of
0:49.5	her outfits. And I feel like since then she's really taken off. She has a great Instagram presence
0:57.8	and she's dating this guy. So she opened up a little bit. I feel like Ella hasn't really spoken
1:04.0	about her dating life. And like we don't really I don't know if I've ever heard her in an interview.
1:10.4	So this was me kind of trying to get to know Ella a little bit better and her dating life. And
1:17.3	I'm really excited for you to hear what she has to say and what her experience was. And before we
1:23.2	get into that, I had told you I was going to do a little extended version of the 9010. So I'm going
1:28.7	to take the time now to answer the questions that you had submitted for that. I know we've been talking
1:33.6	about 9010 a lot recently, but it still seems to confuse a lot of people. So we're going to get
1:38.3	right into it. What is 9010? 9010 is 90% security in a relationship and 10% in security.
1:45.3	Essentially the recipe for a successful relationship. Because if you have 100% security in your
1:51.2	relationship, you're not going to want to do anything. Essentially, like you're going to think you
1:55.4	have your partner in the bag. You're going to get lazy. You're going to get, you know, start taking
2:00.4	them for granted and you're not going to appreciate what you have in front of you. So somebody said,
2:06.8	what are questions to ask or things to say to be in the 10%. I think it's less of like things to
2:13.0	say because if you start being like so and so hit on me, it can look a little bit like you're trying
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