As 2023 comes to a close, there is one trend. I would love to see left behind the whole

masculine versus feminine conversation because to me it's lazy. It lacks nuance and it creates rules for many that genuinely only apply to some and I know for a fact I'm not alone and feeling this way.

If I'm even meeting a fem-presenting person that's like,

you're just a little too feminine, I'm like, okay, well, we're just not probably going to work.

People say that?

I've definitely had some people say, like you're just a little, just kind of feminine and I'm like, yeah, I guess I am.

Whatever that means?

I guess so.

Do you mean that I'm softer? Do you mean that I'm softer?

Do you mean I'm more gentle?

And what is wrong with that?

I can be all of those things and still protect you.

So what is it that you actually mean?

What's your relationship to that? Malwright, the certified sweetheart from the

ultimatum is here to shed light on how ideals around masculinity and

femininity have caused some major roadblocks in her love and sex life.

But to think like I'm less masculine because I let my partner do said thing is it's just a it's just wild to me it's hurt it's actually kind of

hurtful I think people are missing out on so much pleasure straight people too men too that's what we're here to talk about on this episode of.

Love is and friends.

I'm gonna take you on a trip baby, I don't pretend I say love is and friends.

I'm gonna hold you down down to the end. I say lovers and friends.

Hi there lovers and friends. Welcome to the podcast called the same damn thing I just said.

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