I'd want to be the best love of my woman has ever had. You know what I mean? And I realized that staying in that corner was not going to be it.

Somebody's going to please her. When I get up after having sex and leave, she has to always go to a vibrator.

I had a partner that was like that for me.

I was like, I was going to count down like fall asleep please.

You know what I'm saying?

And I had a partner that had to do that.

I remember my big mama when I left one morning. I was going to the

train station and I get to the train and I didn't have my metro card. And I'm like,

damn, I go back to the house, get the metro card. And as soon as I open the door, you

you know, I was like, really?

Right?

And I didn't realize it's because she was never always satisfied.

Like sex was one thing, but satisfaction is another.

When you say protection, protection providing it's not just

money it's not just protected from other people it's from your own in securities

projecting your shit onto them and limiting their growth because you weren't when you go to it.

You know, so I'm on the journey where we're doing it together.

Love is and friends.

I'm gonna take you on a trip baby I don't pretend I say

love is and friends I'm gonna hold you down down to the end I say

Hi there lovers and friends welcome to the podcast my name is Shambudram I have a master's in psychology I'm

certified as a sexologist I graduated from college for print journalism but don't

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