Hello everyone welcome to the podcast my guest today is Monica. She was

in out a work group but one of those people in the group wanted to come visit her and she was

very clear with her no and so Monica comes home, she walks into her, the garden.

And there, her friend is in her garden.

So what to do, what to do,

welcome to the work with Monica.

Hello, dears.

So if you knew to the work, the work is a way to identify the

thoughts that cause all the suffering in your world, a way to identify the

thoughts that cause all the suffering in your life and world and how to question those thoughts.

So that's what we do here in this community.

Those of you knew, welcome here, welcome here.

Hi, Monica.

Hi.

Hi.

So what is the situation?

So the situation is still kind of shaky because it just happened. So the situation is I have this rather new friend. We've been friends for about two years and she lives in a

different country and so we've been we have met up a couple of times and we have like been on the phone and chatting and stuff and at some point it has kind of taken a quality of where I feel kind of pushed and

like stalked in a way that she she would give me she would text me like how like who I have liked on social media or she would if I don't if I don't text or if I don't call her she she gets angry.

And when I came home from the school,

I wrote her a letter in a sense of the making amends and kind of being honest and I wrote her I

thanked her for everything she's given me and and then I said that I don't want to have contact with her.

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