Lexi called in to talk all about how to navigate the lifestyle as a newbie guy and gave great advice on using apps, swinger party and club etiquette and sooo much more. Tune in to hear all the details including why single men have such a bad rap in the lifestyle and how and why that makes couples wary, the major things you should NOT do when trying to hook up with a couple, why its beneficial to make friends with the husband first, how to get noticed as a newbie on a lifestyle app, why it’s important to learn about the Lifestyle first and where to find the info on SDC.com, what you should include and what you shouldn’t include in your online bio and why it’s important, the bets types of pics to post besides pics of your dick, how to find gangbangs and swingers clubs and parties in your area and the kind of info that’s available, what’s the difference between meet and greets, meet and mingles and munches and what goes down at them, how to use an app to find people to hook up with while traveling, what to expect first time you go to a swingers club or sex party, how to say no and how to handle it when someone else says no, how to cope of when you “cant get it up” and how to still have fun plus a whole lot more. To find out more about Lexi, click here: https://lexisylver.com To get your FREEEEE SDC.COM Trial click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712  **To see hot pics of LEXI and my other female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors:  https://butterwellness.com/ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://viia.co/STRICTLYANON Try VIIA and use code STRICTLYANON for great SEX and sleep https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea and get a 30-day FREE trial https://beducate.me/march2025 Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices