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Now That We're A Family

114: Keeping Score in Marriage—And You’re Working Harder Than Your Spouse

Now That We're A Family

Elisha and Katie Voetberg

Kids & Family, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 30 March 2021

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

This is definitely one of those episodes where we bring you guys in on a conversation we are currently having. We never want to stop pruning our marriage and chasing out the foxes. Hopefully we hit on some things that resinate with you and relate to your marriage and that you are able to grow …

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Do you ever find yourself keeping score in your marriage, in your friendships, in your

0:07.6

church community?

0:10.0

Because I know Katie and I have found ourselves doing that from time to time in our marriage,

0:14.9

and I think it's human nature to keep track of who's doing more, who's doing less, who's

0:19.8

slacking off, who did the dishes last night and therefore who should do them this morning?

0:25.5

Those are questions that sometimes we as human beings ask ourselves only to find that

0:31.6

that is not the point of marriage, nor should it be a question that we ask ourselves

0:36.0

on a regular basis.

0:38.2

So if you're asking yourself that question, or if you're asking your spouse that question,

0:43.0

maybe you should listen to this episode, because Katie and I are asking each other why

0:47.3

do we find ourselves keeping track of score, keeping track of who's doing more, who's

0:54.0

for tatin' in the marriage?

0:56.0

What?

0:57.0

Alright, let's get this thing going.

1:01.0

Hey, I'm Eli Shavoburk, and I'm his wife Katie.

1:06.7

Katie and I both grew up in families that were fun, impactful, and relationship rich.

1:11.1

Now that we're a family of our own, with three young children under the age of three,

1:15.3

we're eager to see what God can do through the family unit.

1:18.3

We're so excited that you're joining us on this podcast as we dive into what the Bible

1:22.5

says about marriage, children, parenting, money, sex, careers, roles, and so much more.

1:28.2

Katie, are you ready?

1:29.5

Let's go!

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