Hi friends so recently I came under a lot of heat on tic-talk for a video that I made and

That's what inspired this whole episode on accountability unfortunately I made a very poorly worded Tik-Tock,

and it went extremely viral, and a lot of people chimed in.

So I want to clear up a lot of misconceptions

and explain some things that I've learned.

First thing I want to clear up,

because I have a lot of eyes on me,

of people who do not know who I am and how I am.

For me personally, character overrides

physical appearance in every aspect.

Treating someone poorly based off of physical attributes

like their size, color, shape

is never gonna be okay with me

and I'm never gonna condone that.

And I want to make it very clear

that's not what I was doing with the video that I made. So the main thing that

added to the controversy is the topic of fat phobia. I've now researched it and I did not understand that fat phobia and that

entire topic has its own language and I did not know how to speak it. So now I want to share what I've learned about it so other people can avoid

making statements that make people look at them incorrectly. But from my research that I did, fat phobia does not take into consideration

your heart, how you truly feel about people, or the way that you treat people who are plus size.

Someone can be considered fat phobic,

simply for rhetoric and words used

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