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breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

#139: Things to Consider Before Living Together

breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

Trina Leckie

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🗓️ 17 November 2019

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

The truth of the matter is, until you live with someone, you don’t really know them 100%. You NEED to listen to this before taking the big leap to move in together...

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Broken-hearted, feeling like the world is over, convinced you'll never meet anyone else.

0:10.0

Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle.

0:15.0

She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life.

0:20.0

Hi guys, the topic of this episode is things to consider before living together.

0:29.0

If you just broke up with someone who you were living with you may be thinking oh gosh I wish I would have heard this

0:34.4

episode before but hey we have to learn the hard ways in times and we grow through

0:39.3

experience so don't be hard on yourself you know just apply it to your life going forward

0:45.8

because that's all we can really do right you don't want to live in the past

0:50.2

making the choice to live with someone is a huge step, you know, especially if you're used to living by yourself.

0:59.0

It's the type of thing where you can get overly excited about it, kind of like playing house, without thinking

1:05.0

through logically.

1:07.2

And that is what can get you into trouble, leaving you feel stuck with regret. And you never want to move in with someone

1:15.8

just because it will be easier on you financially. Like if that's the case,

1:20.3

look for a roommate instead. The truth of the matter is, is that until you live with

1:26.2

someone you don't really know them 100%. Plus you no longer have the freedom to come and go as you please, like there's no more privacy and probably very little alone time.

1:37.0

Sure you may have a lot of great times, but living together will also highlight whatever is wrong in your relationship.

1:45.2

There is way more to this than it just being like a fun sleepover.

1:51.4

So my advice to you is don't keep your head in the clouds.

1:55.0

And you may have already lived with someone like I said, but if you should

2:00.0

consider moving in with someone in the future, you need to consider these things.

2:06.8

Take time to have a trial run.

2:09.3

So that means both of you keep your places while one of you relocates for a good 30 days. I would recommend 30 days.

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