#180: He Won’t Do it My Way! • The Work of Byron Katie®

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🗓️ 5 November 2024

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

Debbie, my guest this week, is upset at her dad for calling her dogmatic. She believes he should look to himself and stop giving her advice when he doesn’t understand the problem. As Debbie realizes to the reality of the situation, she becomes clear that she is the one who didn’t understand the problem. Join and experience the freedom of an open mind.

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0:00.0	Hello everyone and welcome to the work with Debbie, my client today. I hope you enjoy this.
0:15.0	Debbie is on the phone with her father and believing, as he's giving her advice, that he should take a look
0:23.6	in the mirror, he should open his mind and stop giving her advice when he doesn't really even
0:29.7	understand the problem. And if any of this is familiar, I love my time with Debbie today. Her mind is so open.
0:39.1	She is, you know, I think I'll leave the rest to you.
0:42.8	And altogether now, open your mind.
0:45.4	Get still.
0:46.9	And let's sit in the work with Debbie.
0:52.3	Hello, dears.
0:53.6	Those of you new to the work today, the work is a way to identify and question
0:59.0	the thoughts that cause all the suffering in your world.
1:04.0	And those of you knew to the work today, in this community, what we do is we identify the cause of our suffering and we question it together.
1:16.5	May the grace of God be always in our heart, that song.
1:20.2	You know, there is an immovable, immovable, there's an immovable thing in you. there's a thing in you that doesn't move it's impeccable
1:34.6	and if you've ever felt stress or you've ever felt joy you know the difference.
1:53.1	That immovable is like anything you think that goes against your own heart, meaning that immovable is going to feel like stress or a kind of arrogance.
1:59.4	I am and you are not.
2:01.1	This lack of balance, or there's something wrong with this imbalance that you,
2:09.4	other than what you're thinking and believing,
2:13.1	oh my goodness, we're connected.
2:19.0	Living out of this state of mind that understands, that understands when someone, when we see
2:28.2	someone as just being brutal, for example, if I believed what they believed, I'd have to say and do the same.
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