#184: My Sister Drinks! (Part Two) • The Work of Byron Katie

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🗓️ 3 December 2024

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(Part 2 of 2) My guest this week is angry at her sister, who was loud and drunk in a restaurant bar. Join us as we sit in self-inquiry and find out who is more addicted to what. Close your eyes, breathe, and let’s do The Work.

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0:00.0	Hello everyone and welcome to Part 2.
0:10.0	I love that you joined us.
0:12.0	And the situation is she's having lunch with her alcoholic sister and we're looking at what she's thinking and believing about her sister. And it's very intimate
0:24.6	as we look at things such as my sister should quit drinking, to be happy I need my sister to stop being
0:33.6	so overly animated. This is powerful. Welcome to the work. Welcome to self-inquiry.
0:40.9	Let's move into part two. She put me in a bad situation. Turn around. I put her in a bad situation.
0:52.7	So give me an example there.
0:56.4	Oh, I feel like that's true.
0:58.6	I feel like I did put her in a...
1:00.4	Now we're into discussion again.
1:03.7	Okay.
1:05.1	Example.
1:06.5	I put her in a good situation.
1:10.8	In that situation, I put her in a good situation.
1:14.1	In that situation, I put her in a bad situation.
1:18.8	Because I knew I was going to come with judgment.
1:25.0	So I knew she was going to drink and I knew I was going to come with judgment.
1:30.9	And therefore, she's in a position to be treated poorly by me.
1:40.5	Yeah, you know, so just notice, this is big stuff. It's like you set her up and you're just like the rest of us, you know, and all of her
1:46.2	piety, you know, we set people up and we are absolutely asleep to it and we use them to
1:54.2	prove, you know, that she is that and I am this and she, I'm the victim and she's the perpetrator.
2:03.6	And doesn't she see that, you know, whatever it is,
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