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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting

191: Should I Let My Kid Use Swear Words?

Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting

Dr. Lisa Damour/Good Trouble Productions

Kids & Family, Mental Health, Parenting, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 720 Ratings

🗓️ 29 October 2024

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

“Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting” is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges.  Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday.  Is it okay for tweens and teens to swear? Or is it a behavior that is always grounds for concern? In this episode, Reena and Dr. Lisa tackle a heartfelt letter from a mom struggling with her 10-year-old’s explosive outbursts and explore why children are drawn to swearing and how, at times, it can be used to cause or express emotional pain. Dr. Lisa unpacks the research on why people swear, emphasizes the importance of predictability and consistency in setting boundaries around cursing, and discusses when swearing in tweens and teens might be a sign that it’s time to seek therapy or school counseling. We want to hear from you! How do you handle swearing in your household? Do you have the same rules for yourself and your kids? Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan. Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/ Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com Episode Keywords: swearing, cursing, emotional pain, therapy, predictability, consistency, swear words Show Keywords: ask lisa podcast, dr lisa damour, reena ninan, psychology, parenting, podcast, teens, tweens, parenting teens, parenting tweens, teen parenting, tween parenting, parenting tips, parenting advice, positive parenting, parenting podcast, teen behavior, tween challenges, raising tweens, raising teens, parenting hacks, parenting help, family dynamics, kids podcast, mental health, teen mental health, attachment styles, emotional intelligence

Transcript

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0:00.0

Tell me a parenting issue everyone struggles with, with tweens and teens, but no one talks about.

0:06.9

Rina, I think a lot of people feel like they just don't know how to connect to their kid anymore.

0:12.3

I'm Rina Ninen and welcome to Ask Lisa, the Psychology of Parenting Podcast.

0:18.7

And I'm Dr. Lisa D'Amour.

0:20.3

We bring you science-back strategies for managing anxiety, discipline, intense emotions, and more.

0:26.6

We decode tough parenting challenges with tips that you can use right now.

0:32.0

So subscribe to Ask Lisa, the Psychology of Parenting Podcast, and join our YouTube community today.

0:37.8

We're here to help you untangle family life.

0:43.4

Episode 191, should I let my kid you swear words?

0:54.0

I had the most embarrassing carpool moment a couple weeks ago.

0:58.8

Ooh, do you tell.

1:00.2

I am in my car and Spotify is running and it's a group of girls coming from ballet.

1:07.6

And there is Taylor Swift, full blast, but my son had turned on on our Spotify family share, explicit lyrics on.

1:18.7

So it is full on Taylor, who we love, but I prefer without all of the, you know, curse words with it.

1:28.0

Yeah, no, she uses the F word.

1:29.6

She absolutely does.

1:30.7

Taylor.

1:32.5

But so anyway, we love her music.

1:35.4

And I could not figure out from my car how to turn it up.

1:38.6

And apparently if you are in this position in the future, you've got to get off of that

1:42.4

system and go and turn it off on your

1:44.3

app or whatever.

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