Hello everyone and welcome to self-inquiry. I'm Byron Katie and my guest today is Dorothea.

Her sisters and her aunt have cut her out of the inheritance that the other two sisters are receiving. Wow, after all the work she's done,

after all she doesn't deserve it,

and how possibly can Dorothea come to understand

that this is not a terrible thing, it's understandable in fact.

So she sees her sisters as selfish and greedy and fearful.

And, okay, enough for me, enough.

Let's do the work.

Welcome to our time together with Dorothea.

Hello, dears, hello, dears.

So happy to see you.

Hope you had wonderful holidays.

I had amazing holidays.

Amazing holidays.

One of my children or grandchildren might say,

oh, grandma, something, something, there's something terrible the matter.

And oh, my gosh, I just, I just, ah, the gift of hearing what they're thinking and believing

and understanding it without trying to change them or teach them

just to hold them and listen and to understand and oh my and then should they ask for some

advice oh oh oh i've got some Oh, my. And then should they ask for some advice? Ooh, ooh, ooh.

I've got some.

Oh, my, oh my, oh my.

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