195. The "Good Girl" Trap (and How to Break the Patriachy's Rules) with Elise Loehnen

Financial Feminist

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Self-improvement, Education, How To, Business

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🗓️ 28 October 2024

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Content warning: conversations surrounding disordered eating, sexual assault, rape Hey Financial Feminists! Today’s conversation is one that’s going to challenge the way you see yourself and the world. I sat down with Elise Loehnen — New York Times bestselling author and host of the "Pulling the Thread" podcast — to unpack how the seven deadly sins have been used to keep women small and compliant for centuries. We talk about the trap of trying to be a “good girl” in a society that often tells us to stay quiet, how Elise looks to the seven deadly sins as a framework for what patriarchy sees as a “good girl” and why it’s all bullshit, and how to reclaim our desires, ambitions, and freedom by breaking the rules. Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/195-the-good-girl-trap-and-how-to-break-the-patriachys-rules-with-elise-loehnen/ Elise’s links: “On Our Best Behavior” book: https://www.eliseloehnen.com/onourbestbehavior Pulling the Thread podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pulling-the-thread-with-elise-loehnen/id1585015034 Instagram Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Are you registered to vote? https://vote.org/ Special thanks to our sponsors: Squarespace Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase. Masterclass Get an additional 15% off any annual membership at masterclass.com/FFPOD. Rocket Money Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD. Third Love It’s time to get your Bra-blems Solved™. Use code PODCAST15 for $15 off your order at ThirdLove.com.

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0:00.0	But I think what happens to women, we are conditioned to subjugate all of our wants to other
0:06.8	people's needs.
0:08.1	Most of us don't actually know what we want or have any intimacy or comfort exploring that. And so the minute, for example,
0:16.0	that your envy comes up, it feels so uncomfortable, so bad that you want to deprecate the person who's making you feel bad to make
0:25.0	it make yourself feel better to make it go away rather than just letting it come
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