1KHO 67: We Underestimate the Power of Family | Kim John Payne, Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens | The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast, S3

The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast

Ginny Yurich

Parenting, Kids & Family

4.9 • 1.8K Ratings

🗓️ 11 August 2022

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

I think you're going to listen to this one twice. Maybe three times. I cried while editing it and I can hardly believe I got to speak with Kim John Payne a second time. Payne's newest book, Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens launches this week and it left me slack-jawed. Like all of Payne's other books, he covers so many pressing topics in both practical and memorable ways and then, in these conversations, he somehow is able to expound even more. In just sixty minutes we cover the crucial topic of family being a safe harbor and how as a lot of the structures of the past fall away we have to step up and strengthen the family base camp. We cover bullying - in all forms including online, exclusion, teasing, and more and the ways to coach kids through. Bullying doesn't just affect one child, it affects the entire family. We discuss "turning down the faucet" instead of spending childhood mopping up the spillage. We talk about rites of passage in other cultures and the ways in which those are related to enduring ongoing social turbulence. Payne shares a secret near the end... and it's a good one. We had the conversation and I took notes. I listened back to edit it and I took notes. It's just so good. A golden nugget of my parenting years. The things we can teach our tweens, teens and even younger children about being emotionally resilient will help us as well in our adult lives. There aren't many books I recommend having on your shelves as reference, but this is definitely one. You can purchase a copy here: https://amzn.to/3dl1Smc Sign up for a free live book launch workshop on Thursday 8/18 at 8:30 ET here: https://www.simplicityparentinginstitute.com/ertt-book-home It's free but you have to register. I'll be there too!! Learn more about Kim John Payne and all of his wonderful books here. As Kim says, "Parenting is too important to not enjoy it." https://www.simplicityparenting.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Yay!
0:03.0	Good to see you!
0:05.0	Here we are again.
0:06.0	We are.
0:08.0	We are.
0:09.0	It's a big month for you.
0:11.0	It's book launch month.
0:13.0	Yeah, yeah, we, that's right. That's right. Yep.
0:18.0	Yeah, yeah. It's a busy month I know.
0:20.0	Yeah. I love the book.
0:23.0	Yeah, I just, you know, thank you. I just had a look at it again.
0:27.0	You know how when you write, you do something and I just, before, just before coming on now, I looked at it again. I hadn't looked at it for a you know a little while like really looked at it and I thought
0:38.7	This is this is good and I had to sort of like I thought, hmm, I grew up a Presbyterian, you're not supposed to say that. But it's all right, you know, it's all right. You know, it's the, I love the the stories I come back to those that story learning again
0:57.8	but the advice to parents I was I looked at it again with you go away from now you look at with fresh eyes and I thought this is fairly
1:09.0	absorbable if I was a dad reading this I'd think yeah I can this is not too much this is broken down. Yeah
1:18.5	Well, we're in it. Let's keep going. I'll say now welcome to the 1000 hours outside podcast. I think people are going to be so
1:26.7	thrilled Kim John Payne that you are back with us. Your podcast episode with us about the undeclared war on childhood is by far by far our most downloaded
1:38.4	podcast episode you have so
1:44.1	Thank you.
1:45.1	Thank you from the bottom of my heart for coming back.
1:47.8	It's a thrill to see you again.
1:49.5	Oh, Ginny, it's just really nice.
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