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The Verywell Mind Podcast

237 - Friday Fix: This 8-Minute Phone Call Will Make You a Happier Person

The Verywell Mind Podcast

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Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Mental Health, Education

5703 Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2023

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

We often avoid calling our friends and relatives simply because we don’t have time. You might think your aunt is impossible to get off the phone with, or you might think your friend can’t possibly hang up until she’s given you every detail of her life over the past month. But there’s evidence that a quick phone call is not only possible but it might also be the key to happiness. Rather than connect for an hour a couple of times per year, your psychological well-being might be better served by more frequent, shorter calls. In fact, 8 minutes seems to be the sweet spot. It’s enough time to connect and to boost your mood. So in this episode of The Verywell Mind Podcast, I explain the research study that discovered the 8-minute phone call, how to actually get off the phone fast, and why it’s so good for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Very Well Mind podcast. We've interviewed over 100 authors, experts, entrepreneurs, athletes, musicians, and others to help you learn strategies to care for your mental health.

0:22.9

This episode is hosted by psychotherapist and bestselling author Amy Morin. Now let's get into the episode.

0:45.4

Okay. You're listening to the Friday fix.

0:49.8

Every Friday, I share a quick mental strength strategy that can help fix the thoughts, feelings, and actions that can hold you back in life.

0:52.9

What can you do with eight minutes?

0:55.4

For most of us, if you have a spare eight minutes until your next meeting or until your next

0:59.7

task begins, you might spend it scrolling through your phone or just surfing the internet.

1:05.1

But what if I told you that you could use those eight minutes to call a friend and become a

1:09.4

happier person? There's new research out from the

1:12.5

longest study on happiness that's ever been conducted, and they found that a quick eight-minute

1:17.4

phone call might be one of the easiest ways to boost happiness. Since 1938, the Harvard

1:23.2

study of adult development has been investigating what makes people happy. The directors of the

1:28.4

study recently wrote a book called The Good Life, where they share their biggest takeaways from the

1:32.6

study. Ultimately, they found that good relationships are the key to health and happiness.

1:38.5

But those relationships have to be nurtured. That's hard to do right now, right? We sometimes make socializing or connecting

1:45.9

with people fall kind of far down on the priority list. We get busy with work and our families

1:51.9

need us, and we convince ourselves that we'll spend quality time with friends and extended family

1:57.1

later. To live your best life, though, you shouldn't wait until later. You should make

2:03.1

time to get in touch with your loved ones regularly. You don't necessarily have to see your friends

2:08.3

and family in person, though, to get the benefits. Talking on the phone can make you a happier person.

2:14.9

But if you're like most people, you might never talk on the phone these days.

2:19.6

Phone calls have mostly been replaced by texting. And there's evidence that when we do talk on

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