Hello everybody, welcome back to How Come. This episode is amazing. I love it so so much. We are

talking about keeping it spicy and long-term relationships, new relationships, why it's so hard

to talk about sex with your partner and how to do it better. And who better to do this with?

Then Vanessa and Zander Marin, you might remember Vanessa from season three. She is a sex therapist

with 20 years of experience. Zander Marin is her partner. He's a regular dude. Together they share

the ups and downs of their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving

yours. You can tune into their podcast, pillow talks, join their email list at vmtherapy.com for

totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really

goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. We're talking about that and their brand new

book Sex Talks, the five conversations that will transform your love life. Again, you're going to

love this episode. I love these five conversations and I'm so excited for you to hear it. If you want

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much. Alright, let's get this episode started. How come how come how come I can't achieve how come I can't achieve

I'm rolling up my sleeve I'm rolling up my sleeves oh maybe I believe these guests can help

because I can't do it by myself I want to choose. You guys welcome to how come Vanessa welcome back

and Zander welcome for the first time. Thank you. Thank you. I'm excited to be back. I'm excited to be here.

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