#359: Things You MUST Know Before Getting Married, The Prenup Talk, Gray Areas of Cheating + Why You Should Never Pressure Your Partner To Get Engaged w. My Ex-Boyfriend, Now Fiancé, Ben Darby
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Mimi Bouchard
4.4 • 953 Ratings
🗓️ 15 May 2023
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Summary
Mimi’s fiancé, Ben Darby, back in the hot seat - dishing on the things men think about before they get engaged. Why he was finally ready and how being pressured doesn’t work. Also, the story behind how his perfect plan for the surprise proposal was almost thwarted. In addition, Mimi and Ben tackle listener questions, delving into the essential topics couples MUST discuss prior to getting married.
- What constitutes cheating (and does VR porn count?)
- Will they get a prenup?
- How will they split their money?
- How many kids do they want to have… and is it too soon to start trying?
Topics:
-How Ben planned the (perfect) proposal… and how border guards in Canada almost thwarted it!
-What changes when you get engaged.
-Will they get a prenup?
-Do they agree on how many kids to have and when to start trying?
-What is considered cheating and what’s harmless flirting?
-VR porn: is this cheating?
-Are same sex friends ok to have?
-What did they get out of couples’ therapy? And why they stopped.
-Keep your money separate or have a joint bank account?
-What kind of parent does each think the other will be like?
-Is it possible to have a family AND the globe-trotting lifestyle they really, really want?
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| 0:00.0 | So last time you were on this podcast you were a boyfriend what is it like being a fiance it's better than I imagined actually |
| 0:07.8 | Really? Yeah I said let's take a Instagram photo and then you're not going to argue with that one. |
| 0:13.0 | Oh yeah, so that was an easy sell. |
| 0:15.0 | I am so street smart. |
| 0:17.0 | We've decided this. |
| 0:18.0 | Sometimes not. |
| 0:19.0 | What, no, the other day you said I am the street smart one. |
| 0:22.0 | So the reason you called yourself street |
| 0:24.4 | smart is because you predicted correctly that there would be a bathroom in |
| 0:28.4 | Nordstrom. Well no there was something else before that. And there was a |
| 0:31.0 | bathroom in Nordstrom. These are the must discussed things |
| 0:34.4 | that we need to talk about before getting married. |
| 0:36.5 | Number one, babies. |
| 0:37.5 | When do you want to have babies? |
| 0:39.0 | How many babies do you want? |
| 0:40.4 | When we get married, how will we split finances, bills, child care? My name is |
| 0:46.2 | Mimi Bouchard, founder of Superhuman, the transformational app that helps you |
| 0:50.4 | become your future self so that you can finally start attracting more joy |
| 0:54.8 | abundance health wealth and love into your life and that's also my mission on |
| 1:00.5 | this podcast meet people whose lives have been transformed in big and small ways but always for the better |
| 1:08.0 | they tell me how they did it so that you can too. |
| 1:12.0 | Today on the podcast, the hard stuff |
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