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breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

#365: tiny talk: Why Your Ex Never Apologized & Why You Really Need to Let That Go

breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

Trina Leckie

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🗓️ 30 January 2025

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to "trina's tiny talks" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch!

In this "tiny talk," I explain why your toxic ex didn’t apologize - and why, even if they had, it wouldn’t really matter.

Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don’t miss this one!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

There's always time for Trina's tiny talks, bite-size episodes packed with punch that'll

0:07.3

knock some sense into you. I'll let her know you're here. Hang tight for a sec. Hi guys. Today's

0:15.6

tiny talk topic is why your ex never apologized and why you really need to let that go. So you're still

0:25.3

hung up on that missing apology. You wonder if they ever feel bad? You replay the past and

0:31.9

hoping that one day they're going to wake up and realize how badly they screwed you over

0:36.7

and come crawling back with this heartfelt

0:39.6

apology or even be outside your window trying to serenade you? Let's be real. That's not happening.

0:48.5

But even if it did, it wouldn't change a damn thing because here's the cold hard truth.

0:56.4

If someone is the type to gaslight you, dodge accountability, and twist reality to suit their ego,

1:03.5

well, they're never going to give you the closure that you think you need.

1:08.9

Apologizing would mean admitting that they were wrong. Admitting that they were wrong?

1:14.6

Oh God, that would mean that you were right. And they simply cannot have that. No, no, no, it's not in their DNA.

1:21.6

You can't have that leverage over them. Instead, they'd rather rewrite history, play the victim, and tell anyone who

1:31.1

will listen that the relationship just didn't work out. We just grew apart. Or maybe they'll say

1:37.5

you're crazy. You know how that goes. You know, just kind of conveniently leaving out the part where they were the reason it didn't work out?

1:47.2

Because in their mind, maintaining their image is more important than taking responsibility.

1:54.3

But here's the question you need to ask yourself.

1:57.5

If someone would rather let you spiral in confusion and hurt, then say two simple words,

2:05.2

I'm sorry?

2:06.8

What does that say about the value they brought to your life?

2:10.8

You ready for a spoiler alert?

2:13.0

Not much.

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