There's always time for Trina's tiny talks, bite-size episodes packed with punch that'll knock some sense into you.

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to get 10% off your first month. Hey guys. So in this tiny talk, I'm going to talk about how you need to

stop explaining to someone why you should be together. So basically, say you're dating someone and you're so ready to make

it official, like you want to be with this person so bad. You're already picturing things like

cute couple selfies, shared Netflix accounts, maybe even grocery store runs for cooking dinner

together on a random Wednesday.

But there's just one problem.

They're not giving you the same vibes in return.

And you're feeling a little insecure about it.

Here's the thing.

You never want to be in a position where you're explaining,

trying to convince,

or literally downright selling yourself to someone? No, just no. Relationships

should never feel like a sales pitch. Groveling, begging, crying. Oh God, no. No, recipe for disaster.

Because if they're not all in, why would you even want them?

Why would you even want them?

You deserve a hell yes.

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