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Y'all we just had to restart this podcast because I actually start off really bad because I couldn't remember how to do the intro. And that's when I knew it was a slippery slope down to no

words view. We got in a big argument over Mother's Day, but we resolved. It wasn't really a serious argument, but it was too dumb, too trivial.

It wasn't even an argument. Yeah, it wasn't. Um, we were just going back and forth. It was funny. Y'all never hear it. It was too trivial to include an actual episode.

We were just being trolls too much. And I feel like you nobody would be able to no one would be able to decipher what is real and what is troll. Yeah, they'll be so triggered. Yeah, you know, I was going to say.

I was going to say booty tickle, but I'm not even sure where I got that from or what that means. That's what I'd be saying instead of being triggered. I can't we've had to say that on the podcast, but yeah.

Some people are not going to catch it and they're going to be all in their feelings that I'm just like, I'm not going to probably see it anyway, but I'm not going to deal with it. So.

How was Mother's Day? That was yesterday. Yeah, it was so amazing. It was amazing. It was so good. It was so fine. It was just so enjoyable. Like it just.

The feeling, the words I have to describe it is just like a light airy fun. How do you think you're supposed to feel on Mother's Day? That light airy fun. What about appreciated.

Yeah, the only way for light and areas, if you feel love, how can you feel appreciated? Like, how can a man make a woman feel appreciated in general? And specifically, how can Caitlin make Kyra feel appreciated? Is it like remembering days like that?

Remembering the places that you like and then doing those things or making sure we can do those things or what?

Well, I think the only way I'm going to want to celebrate anything with anyone is if they're already doing those things every other day.

Oh, you're going to build me out. Oh, that I wasn't like back at me.

I wasn't like that. That's just I think world wide for women all over the world. It's like, okay, yeah, you can wish me happy birthday and say how much you love me and then.

Hop on the podcast or hop on Instagram and boast about all the things you did for me on this one day, but yesterday I felt neglected. I felt lonely. I felt sad.

I haven't heard. I love you in months since my birthday or whenever, you know, so it's like.

It takes away from the light airy fun of like that one specific day of like super concentrated like appreciation.

If it it's not followed up or there's no love before that. I think dudes believe in so much to be desired when they.

Do so much on like birthdays or like mother's day like holidays and then they're just kind of trash throughout the rest of the year because the girls was like, man, you could just like I know you got it in you, but you just can't get out of your own way. You just cannot be consistent.

Not show love. My biggest flex coming from a former caption writer of the year. Most viable caption writer, Kaylyn is that I don't post on those days anymore. Sometimes not even like knowingly, like I'm not doing it. And there's nothing against it. It's just I had the thing where I was that guy where in that necessarily what I was trash, but I was just so over the top about everything because I just wanted everybody to see how much I'm.

Loving and cherishing and doing stuff for Kyra that I remember one day Kyra told me like what do you say? Oh, I remember it had been like multiple captions. And I remember like whenever I wanted to remind myself that you loved me, I would go back and read those captions. And like I just was like this feels so wrong because I don't think I a lot of these words that you'd written. I don't actually think I've ever heard you say to me face to my face. So I think one time I just said like.

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