Hello, everyone.

I'm Alexis Fernandez.

This is do you fucking mind.

And welcome to today's episode, which is all about life advice. I'm going to answer your questions.

They are, it's a whole range of different questions, but a lot of them are kind of, they're really

like life crisis kind of moments where it's like, if I make this decision, then it means

me shutting the door to all these other things. But if I do this

other thing, then it means I can't have this opportunity. So it's really like these existential kind

of questions. So I think even if I'm not addressing your exact scenario, I hope that some of the

advice that I can give with these questions can help you come up with a decision for whatever conundrum you

currently have going on in your life. Because one thing that I'm probably going to reiterate a lot

in this podcast episode is that you, I believe that you can have it all, but I don't think

you can have it all at the same time. And I think that if we can come to terms with

that concept, then it becomes a lot easier to navigate through different seasons of your life,

not thinking that everything has to happen at the same time, not thinking that everything has to

be available for you at the same time. Okay, there's going to be certain seasons where something's

really popping off and something's not. And I there's going to be certain seasons where something's really

popping off and something's not. And I also want you to look at your life as kind of like a plate

with different kind of section or like a pizza almost with different slices. And each slice

represents a different area of your life. One's going to be career, one's relationships, one's

health, mental and physical. One is, you know, career, one's relationships, one's health, mental and physical.

One is, you know, hobbies, one's, you know, your spiritual wellness. There's all these different facets on that pizza. But the slices are rarely ever going to be even, evenly sized, okay?

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