This episode is inspired by Hailey Magee's new book Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power, as well as the "People Pleaser Support Group" skit on SNL. We discuss why people pleasing in the bedroom is different than other forms of people pleasing, why someone would say yes when they mean maybe or no, the common consequences of sexual people pleasing, as well as some tools to to stop people pleasing here and now. We also discuss why working on your relationship with rejection and disappointment is key on your journey towards embracing your inner power and not getting so stuck again. About our guest: Hailey Magee is a certified life coach who helps people around the world stop people-pleasing and master the art of self-advocacy. She is the author of STOP People Pleasing and Find Your Power, released by Simon & Schuster in May 2024. Hailey's refreshingly nuanced perspectives on boundary-setting and self-advocacy have captured the attention of millions on social media, and her workshops and courses have welcomed tens of thousands of participants worldwide. Certified by Erickson Coaching International, Hailey is dedicated to offering clear, research-supported strategies for change, helping recovering people-pleasers rediscover not only their power and agency, but their pleasure, joy, and sense of wonder. She lives in Seattle, Washington. You can learn more about her workshops, courses, and private coaching at HaileyMagee.com or follow her on Instagram at @HaileyPaigeMagee Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here and use code SHAMELESSCOUPLES by 8/31/24 to get $500 off: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com