#413 Chasing Trouble: Why We Fall for the Bad Boy or Hot Mess - with Dr. Ray Doktor

Shameless Sex

Amy Baldwin

Self-improvement, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Education

4.3 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 24 December 2024

⏱️ 68 minutes

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The Allure of the Bad Boy and Hot Mess Ever found yourself inexplicably drawn to someone who seems like a total train wreck? 🤔Join us as we dive into the captivating world of “bad boys” and “bad girls/hot messes” with Dr. Ray Doktor, a best-selling author recognized by the team behind the Chicken Soup for the Soul series and a respected relationship expert with over 28 years of experience! In this fun and insightful episode, we unpack the irresistible charm of these hot messes and explore why many of us can’t help but fall for them. Here’s what you can look forward to: Defining the Personas: What exactly makes someone a bad boy or girl? Let’s break it down! Attraction Uncovered: Why are we drawn to these wild personalities? Is it the thrill, the danger, or something deeper? The Friends Dilemma: Know someone who keeps picking the wrong partner? We’ll share relatable tips for those who feel stuck in a cycle of bad choices. Finding the Good Ones: Curious about how to shift your attraction to healthier partners? We’ve got you covered! Healing from Toxicity: If you’ve been in a painful relationship, learn practical steps to heal and thrive. Red Flags & Green Lights: Discover how to spot narcissistic or toxic partners before getting too involved. Dr. Ray’s Golden Advice: What’s the one piece of wisdom you need for dating success? Tune in for a playful yet empowering conversation that’s all about understanding love, attraction, and making better choices in relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or just curious, this episode is packed with insights that can help you navigate your romantic journey. 🌟 Teaser: Stick around until the end for Dr. Ray’s pivotal advice that could change your dating game forever! For more from Dr. Ray, visit www.raydoktor.com or check out his free life hacks at this link. Don't miss out—this is one episode that promises to be both enlightening and entertaining! 🎧✨ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Get 10 sex-ed classes for under $50 here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

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0:00.0	And you can be honest, you might say, I'm not going to love this person, but I'm horny.
0:03.4	Okay.
0:04.1	But don't be upset if, like, he cheats on you or don't be upset if he's polyamorous.
0:13.0	I'm Amy.
0:14.0	I'm April.
0:15.1	Certified sex educators, sex experts of the year, and best-selling authors.
0:19.9	And we're on a mission to help you have more spicy, connected, and amazing shameless sex.
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0:57.7	Well, hello, everyone. Hi, everybody everybody welcome back to the shameless sex podcast april i have a song for you what is it bad boys bad boys what you're gonna do what you
1:04.1	when they come for you want to fuck you what about like hot mess hot mess what gonna do? When they want to fuck you? Is that what
1:12.5	you said? Well, because this is about why we were choosing the bad boy or the bad girl,
1:17.0	a hot mess girl. We should have put that in the intro like that song. Probably get like a copyright
1:21.4	issue or trademark issue. But we can sing it in our beautiful voices. So this episode is with Dr. Ray,
1:29.1	doctor, I know, yes, and he's Dr. Ray to us about why you or someone you know, or maybe in the
1:35.6	past, you've liked the bad boy or the bad girl, not so nice boy, a nice girl, the not
1:41.3	so great, nice boy, nice girl. Whatever. And he threw the term
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