#477 In-Laws or Outlaws? How to Handle The Challenge of Setting Boundaries with In-Laws

Christian Sexuality - Java with Juli

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🗓️ 7 August 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Is there a difference between loving parental guidance, and overreaching parental interference? How can a couple set boundaries with their in-laws? And how can in-laws give their adult children the space they need to establish strong foundations for their marriages?

While many of us are familiar with the verse about leaving and cleaving, the practicalities of doing so can be challenging when there are parents and wider family who long to provide support in an important new phase of life.

Juli invites her friends, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, to speak about why boundaries with in-laws are important, and how they can be established with love.

Guests: Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley

Greg and Erin on Instagram: @focusmarriage Greg and Erin on Youtube: @focusonthefamilymarriage

Greg and Erin’s Podcast: Focus on Marriage Podcast

Book: Ready to Wed by Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley

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0:00.0	Often, a intimacy has a brand new website, yet she heard that right.
0:06.7	We just launched a new website designed to make it easier for you to find and share all
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0:20.5	what you're looking for.
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0:40.5	Hey, friend, this is Julie.
0:47.0	I want to welcome you to Java with Julie.
0:49.2	This podcast is a listener-supported outreach of authentic intimacy, a ministry dedicated
0:54.7	to reclaiming God's design for sexuality.
0:57.7	Well there are some important shifts that happen when a couple transitions from dating
1:01.9	to actually getting married.
1:03.9	There's so many new things that you have to navigate, like who does the laundry and who
1:07.9	pays the bills and who's job is it to clean the bathroom.
1:12.1	But beyond those types of things, there's some even deeper things that are taking place.
1:16.8	Really you're forging into family, you're establishing your own values, you're setting
1:20.9	goals as a couple and you're deciding overall what your family is going to represent.
1:26.1	Now that's a very important part of the newlywed process and you know who sometimes gets
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