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Christian Sexuality - Java with Juli

#484 Duty Sex, Feeling Objectified, and Other Reasons Women Don't Enjoy Sex in Marriage

Christian Sexuality - Java with Juli

Authentic Intimacy®

Julislattery, Society & Culture, Authenticintimacy, Ihatesex, Christian, Relationships, Pornography, Biblicalsexuality, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Ismasturbationasin

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2023

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

It’s week three of our 7-week series exploring different themes around God, sex and intimacy, and this week, it’s all about sex in Marriage. Every couple wants a healthy, satisfying sex life, but achieving one isn’t always straightforward.

What does it look like to build sexual intimacy when your spouse has a lower drive than you do? What is the most effective way for you to pursue your spouse? And is having sex with your spouse more frequently the answer to their porn addiction?

Juli is joined by J Parker and Bonny Burns, the hosts of the podcast “Sex Chat for Christian Wives”, as they provide biblical, practical insight on the challenges Christian wives face in the marital context.

If you missed last week’s episode, click here.

Guests: J. Parker and Bonny Burns

Podcast: Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Book: Unlock Your Orgasm by Bonny Logsdon Burns

Blog: Five Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm & Intimacy

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, hey friend, welcome to Java with Julie, hosted by me, Julie Slattery.

0:06.6

This podcast is a listener supported outreach authentic intimacy, which is a ministry dedicated

0:12.2

to reclaiming God's design for sexuality.

0:15.5

Well we are in week three of our seven week series on different themes around God's sex

0:20.9

and intimacy.

0:21.9

Now, this week, we're focusing on sex and marriage.

0:26.0

Well, if you've been married for any amount of time, you probably know that most times

0:29.9

a husband and wife aren't 100% aligned in their expectation of what their sex life is

0:34.8

going to look like.

0:36.5

Some wives will wonder why their husband isn't interested in sex or doesn't initiate

0:40.7

as often as they would like, and then there are husbands who struggle to understand why

0:44.9

their wives avoid sex or seem emotionally disconnected.

0:48.7

Well, these are all common problems around sex and marriage, and it's a challenge for

0:53.6

a lot of couples to build a healthy and satisfying sex life.

0:58.0

That's what we're going to be talking about today with my guest Jay Parker and Bonnie Burns.

1:03.3

They are the hosts of the popular podcast, Sex Chat for Christian Wives, and they're

1:07.7

joining me to share about their own experiences where they see other women's struggling and

1:12.5

how to overcome those normal but often really deeply painful sexual problems in marriage.

1:17.9

Now, this conversation is also going to be helpful for you husbands who are trying to

1:22.3

figure out how your wife is navigating some challenges around your sexual relationship.

1:27.2

So don't tune out, you guys.

1:29.2

I think this is a great one for you just to learn from.

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