Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host, Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic medium, and animal communicator. And I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.

Mom, welcome to the podcast. What would you like a reading about? Okay. I'm just going to read my question because I think it'll be easier. So it starts with long time listener. In the past, I've led the charge embodying some unhealthy communication and interacting patterns with my son. In 2016 or so, I began moving towards healing and growth, and I have a hard stop boundary for

the types of interactions that were common in our past, lots of yelling and fighting and control.

I'm finding myself disengaging and distancing myself from my son as a means to enforce my

boundary. It feels like he's still in that place of interaction. There's a lot of anger on

both sides. Sometimes I get triggered and I move back to the old patterns. How can I understand

him better and how our charts interact? What are some ways that I can help lead the charge for

more healthy interaction patterns. Good question.

And will you share your birth information and his birth information, although I just want to say for anyone listening, your adult is a grown-ass man, a young grown-ass man.

And he has given his clear, informed consent that we look at his chart and that he not be here. And I don't

look at the charts and questions like this of parents of children for a variety of reasons. But

we're going to maybe look at his chart, maybe not depending on what is called for here, what we're

going to evolve, like see. But are you willing to share both both both of mom and son's birth data? Yes. So my birthday is February 27th, 1980. I was born in Astoria,

Oregon at 1046 a.m. And my son was born on November 15, 2002 in Phoenix, Arizona, and his birth time is 8.47 p.m.

Thank you for sharing. Okay. Is your son's dad in the picture? Or is there a co-parent in the picture?

I would say we're parallel parenting at this point just because he's an adult. But yeah, he's in the picture? I would say we're parallel parenting at this point just because he's an adult,

but yeah, he's in the picture. Okay. Is he a partner or is he your ex? He's my ex. Okay. And is this

pattern of communication, which I'm understanding is like yelling at each other, kind of getting

shut down by each other, that kind of a thing.

Is that pattern something that your son experiences with his dad?

No.

He is not.

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