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Christian Sexuality - Java with Juli

#494 Purity Culture, Men and Sexual Entitlement

Christian Sexuality - Java with Juli

Authentic Intimacy®

Julislattery, Society & Culture, Authenticintimacy, Ihatesex, Christian, Relationships, Pornography, Biblicalsexuality, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Ismasturbationasin

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 4 December 2023

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

We all know the purity narrative had its downsides for women, but what about men?

Is it possible the purity narrative failed men too?

What were men taught to do with feelings of lust? What harmful ideas were passed on in an effort to protect purity?

Noah Filipiak, author, pastor, and founder of Beyond Ministries, joins Juli to unpack some of the messages men heard, and provide insight on where things need to change.

Guest: Noah Filipiak

Noah’s Instagram: @noahfilipiak

Noah’s Website: noahfilipiak.com

Website: Beyond Ministries

Book: Beyond the Battle by Noah Filipiak

Book: Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Hayley Barton

Book: Secrets of the Secret Place by Bob Sorge

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey friend welcome to Java with Julie. I'm Julie Slattery. Let me remind you that this

0:05.2

podcast is listener supported and it's an outreach of the Ministry Authentic Envacy which

0:10.6

is dedicated to helping people make sense of God and their sexuality.

0:15.0

Over the years we've talked a lot about the fallout of purity culture that was so

0:20.1

dominant within the church during the 80s and the 90s.

0:23.8

And while I've loved those conversations,

0:26.0

most of them have been from the perspective of women,

0:28.8

exploring how purity culture has really impacted their understanding of sex and left them with mixed feelings about their sexuality.

0:37.0

Well today's episode is going to be a little bit different.

0:40.0

Finally we're going to get to hear the other side of the coin and talk about how

0:44.2

purity culture has affected men. My guest today is Pastor Noah Lipiac. He's

0:49.6

author of Beyond the Battle and the founder of Beyond Ministries, which is a ministry

0:55.0

that helps men find accountability

0:57.0

as they seek to know who they are in Christ

1:00.0

and live with integrity in our sexualized world. Now Noah's stories is in many ways the same story

1:06.2

for a lot of Christian men. He battled to save sex for marriage only to find that marriage

1:11.3

was not the sexual utopia that he had imagined.

1:14.9

Now this is a great episode if you are someone trying to understand your husband and a great

1:20.0

episode for men who are seeking to understand some of the damaging behaviors and

1:24.7

thought patterns they picked up from purity culture. Now grab your coffee and let's head to

1:29.9

the coffee shop for my conversation with Noah Philippiac.

1:35.0

Well, Noah, what a joy to have you on job with Julie. I didn't know about you until a few weeks

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