495: Boundaries in a Messy Relationship

Ghost of a Podcast: Astrology & Advice with Jessica Lanyadoo

Jessica Lanyadoo

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 4.2K Ratings

🗓️ 15 January 2025

⏱️ 59 minutes

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A listener engaged in a fuzzy relationship with an older man needs help navigating a messy situation! Their relationship involves a flirtatious friendship and a professional boss-employee power dynamic. They want to know if it's okay to blur these lines, how far they should take it, and what boundaries would actually look like in such a layered relationship. Jessica goes in, triple-Capricorn style. ✨ Get Facing 2025 Together: Astrology for Community Care and Resistance here: https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/shop/facing-2025-together-astrology-for-community-care-and-resistance and support Dahnoun Mutual Aid here: https://chuffed.org/project/115245-dahnoun-mutual-aid 🎉 Get my new audiobook, Meditations for Your Sign, out January 2, 2025 here: https://tiny.cc/0sywzz 🎉 📍ATL: Register for Astrology for Resourcing our Communities and Our Relationships in the Year Ahead: A Conversation with Jessica Lanyadoo here: https://www.charisbooksandmore.com/event/astrology-resourcing-our-communities-and-our-relationships-year-ahead-conversation-jessica 📍 Support the podcast and get loads of extras — including a bonus episode of Ghost monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com

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0:00.0	Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host, Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic medium,
0:06.6	and animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no bullshit,
0:11.2	mystical advice for living your very best life.
0:16.3	Welcome to the podcast. What would you like a reading about?
0:33.5	I have started a relationship with a 71-year-old man. He is the owner and founder of a business where I work, but he's not my supervisor.
0:43.0	And the relationship has turned into a personal relationship that I'm trying to parse out like is that okay like that I'm kind of blurring these lines because I feel vulnerable
0:50.8	one because he has that power in this situation around my career and the
0:57.6	direction that I want to go with my career. And I look up to him. He's on a pedestal. And I think
1:04.8	emotionally, I am vulnerable because he is kind of showing me this affection and care that I didn't receive from my parents
1:14.8	who both recently passed away. I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you. It feels very intense.
1:22.3	There's a lot of emotion and it's making it difficult for me to figure out how to proceed with the relationship.
1:29.4	Okay, I'm going to show your birth data and then I'm going to dive right in.
1:32.5	Okay, you were born October 21, 1987 in Madison, Wisconsin, 515 p.m.
1:39.8	Couple questions, couple questions.
1:41.2	So you're how old, say the number?
1:43.1	37.
1:44.0	You're 37. It's a big
1:45.6	ass age gap between the two of you. And in terms of the kind of people that you and he date,
1:54.5	does he date your gender? Do you date his gender? I date all genders. He is a straight man, I believe. I am non-binary female.
2:05.7	Okay. So you identify with non-binary they them and female she-her? I feel I'm a non-binary
2:12.2	woman. I guess I'm okay sometimes when people use she-her, but they them is is your preference okay let's
2:18.7	yeah okay and is he single he is going through a divorce okay so he was married but is not
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