Hello and welcome to choose a fight today on the show we have an amazing episode

Connie is a listener who's written me a number of emails and her most recent one was one of the most incredible that I've ever received in seven and a half years of

Chuzofai and it basically started off and said it all worked all of it and she

went on to describe a series of steps that she's taken over the last three years that has been truly

transformative and really honestly one of the most remarkable things I've seen.

I cannot tell you how excited I am for this episode. I'm going to cut this short and just let's get into it because you are going to love this one.

With that, welcome to have you here. I've been looking for it.

Connie, I am so happy to have you here.

I've been looking forward to this for months.

Thanks for coming on.

Yeah, thanks, Brad. I'm very excited to be here.

I get very excited talking about this.

Yeah, it really is something special.

This email that you wrote me in March,

was just one of those that hit me like a lighting

bolt and I actually asked you if I could put it in the five weekly newsletter and I did and it just,

the amount of outpouring that I got just people responding to saying how

incredible this was and I know I forwarded you a bunch of those emails and people wanted to

reach out to you and ask you questions and I think A I want to tell your story, but B, there's so many actionable nuggets in here that I think the larger community is going to get benefit from.

So, yeah, I mean, let's dive in, but I think let's take a step back and say like where did your

Fai journey begin? So first I want to say when I was writing the email my eyes were

so big because the more I was typing things out I'm like oh yeah there's this that worked too and this worked but to start what happened was my husband unfortunately got sick and passed and so then I was thrust into having to do everything myself and I'm somebody who learns constantly.

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