505: Holding On or Letting Go?

Ghost of a Podcast: Astrology & Advice with Jessica Lanyadoo

Jessica Lanyadoo

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 4.2K Ratings

🗓️ 19 February 2025

⏱️ 78 minutes

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While in talks around opening up their relationship, Nina's partner cheated. Now they have to make the tough decision to work through the pain and salvage the relationship - or move on. Jessica delves into the patterns that brought this listener to where they are. 🌉Join Jessica in SF or from anywhere in the world here: https://www.ciis.edu/events/navigating-through-astrology-these-times-in-person 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her astrology book, and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 📍 Find loads of extras + a monthly bonus episode of Ghost only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo 🧘‍♂️ Get my new audiobook, Meditations for Your Sign, here: https://tiny.cc/0sywzz 🎉 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com ✨ Get Facing 2025 Together: Astrology for Community Care and Resistance here: https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/shop/facing-2025-together-astrology-for-community-care-and-resistance and support Dahnoun Mutual Aid here: https://chuffed.org/project/115245-dahnoun-mutual-aid ☎️ Reach out your members of Congress and make your voice heard with https://5calls.org/ 🔔 LA fires master mutual aid directory: bit.ly/la-disaster-support ✨ To put funds to incarcerated folks on frontlines of fires: Bit.ly/fund-jpay ✨ Domestic Workers Relief Fund: bit.ly/workersLA ✨ Support Filipino community impacted by LA Fires: tinyurl.com/bdrforla ✨ Disability-led disaster support: disasterstrategies.org or 800-626-4959 ✨ GoFundMe displaced Latine folks: bit.ly/placeAD ✨ Day laborers, migrant workers + immigrants : bitly/laborLOVE ✨ GoFundMe campaigns for displaced Black folks from LA fires in Altedena bit.ly/rebuildAD ✨ Support for deaf and disabled folks impacted by the LA fires through @offthegridmissions To request help: bit.ly/otg-request To donate: bit.ly/otg-donate

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0:00.0	Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host, Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic medium, and animal communicator. And I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.
0:16.3	Nina, welcome to the podcast. What would you like reading about? Last year, my partner and I were having a lot of issues. We were trying to open our relationship and that kind of muddied things a bit. They ended up cheating on me. And I'm just wondering if this relationship is worth saving. I really love this person. When we started dating in
0:41.1	2023, that was honestly one of my best years. We had a lot of fun getting to know each other.
0:48.0	2024 was just a really hard year. And I chose to stand by their side through it all as we both were just dealing with the collective grief and our own personal grief.
0:59.7	Yeah, so I'm just wondering, am I abandoning myself by staying in this relationship?
1:05.2	Is it worth it?
1:07.2	I just feel like my mother wound is one of the issues that I have when it does come to finding
1:14.4	love and staying in it.
1:16.6	And this person has made me feel very seen and it's comforted my inner child in ways that
1:21.8	no one else ever has.
1:23.9	And so I would love to think that this is my person.
1:30.7	I'm hoping my intuition is right and I'm not just navigating out of a place of fear or uncertainty because the world is just so scary right
1:38.8	now and I really don't want to be alone. Yeah. Especially when I've built a home in this person.
1:45.9	And do you two live together currently? No. Okay. I got lots of questions. So bear with me for a sec. Okay. So you don't live
1:51.1	together currently. You've been together almost two years, year and a half. Okay. Did you also cheat on
1:57.8	them? No. I had shared feelings for a friend after they wrote me a love letter on my birthday last year.
2:08.3	And I wrote a letter back, you know, it was a nice gesture.
2:12.7	And I do have a lot of feelings for that person.
2:15.4	And, yeah, after my partner found out about the letter,
2:18.5	things were just kind of tough and then they spiraled and then cheated on me.
2:23.0	I see. So, okay, wait, they found out about the letter. You didn't tell them about the letter?
2:27.5	No. Okay. Okay. So here's a fun fact. And you're using they pronouns. This is a queer relationship, right?
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