Hey friend, I am Julie Slattery and so glad that you've joined me for an episode of

Java with Julie. This podcast is a listener-supported outreach of a ministry called

authentic intimacy and we help people

navigate sexual issues from a Christian perspective. You know when most couples

talk about the problems in their sex life they talk talk about their spouses. They point the

finger at their spouses sex drive, maybe a lack of interest in pursuing sex or

maybe their poor communication together.

And it's true that all these elements have an effect on sex within marriage,

but like most things, blinding each other doesn't seem to work towards a solution. Well today I'm going to be talking

with Dr Michael Seitzma. You've probably heard him on job with Julie before. He always

has great insight. And we're going to be talking about three sexual superpowers that can actually help change intimacy and the conflicts that most couples have within their sexual relationship.

Now I recorded this conversation with Michael when we were speaking at the same event so you might hear a little more background noise than normal.

And I think you're going to enjoy this conversation as you probably have when I've had Michael on in the past.

You know you're in for a treat with his perspective and wisdom.

Well Michael, thanks so much for being with me again on Job with Julie. We are getting ready and just a

day or two to do a presentation together based on your material calling discovering your

sexual superpowers.

Right.

Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah, well when you first kind of said, hey, let's talk about this.

I'm like, that sounds really interesting, like your sexual superpowers.

And I guess the first question is, what does that mean?

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