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🗓️ 21 May 2024
⏱️ 87 minutes
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This week, we’re going into the nuances of modern relationships, personal growth and codependency. 🎧💕
Nowadays, our society has shifted so much that we're all navigating a whole new landscape of love and connection. Back in the day, you would meet someone in your town, get married, have a few kids, and that was your entire life. But now, our expectations in relationships have evolved significantly. We're no longer just looking for a partner to share our lives with; we're seeking someone who is emotionally, romantically, financially, and sexually compatible, all while maintaining independence, stellar communication, and a deep connection.
That's a pretty tall order! 😅
So it comes down the main question: What do we ACTUALLY want a relationship for?
I thought who better to have this conversation with than Mark Groves? I met him back in 2018!
Mark is not only an incredible father and husband but also the co-author of the groundbreaking book "Liberated Love," where he bares his soul and shares his personal journey of heartbreak, reunion, and the intricacies of codependency. 📚
In this episode, Mark and I are going to shine a light on:
The evolving dynamics of modern relationships and societal expectations.
How you can identify and address your own codepndent tendencies in relationships.
Ways we can better understand and heal from ancestral wounds that impact our relationships?
The shocking ways your birth story influences your relationship behaviours and codependency.
The unique challenges and dynamics of relationships where women are financially independent or out-earn their partners.
Why taking a sacred pause after my divorce was one of the best things I did to create space for self-discovery and healing.
So, grab your coziest blanket, brew that steaming cup of your favorite tea and tune into this week's episode where we redefine relationship roles and unlock the secrets to liberated love. 🔓💞
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0:14.0 | You know there's these funny reels I see sometimes it's like what life feels like when you don't like have a crush on someone and it's like so boring and stuff that I think a lot of us even find our entertainment in it. You know, the entertainment like, oh my God, did they watch my stories? Like, oh my God, we matched on this app and I can speak for women. |
0:19.2 | It's like the fantasy. |
0:20.3 | We love it, you know? |
0:21.9 | And it gives us this maybe like this little |
0:23.6 | pepper in our step and like something to feels like something to live for but it's like |
0:28.2 | but that's still the codependency. |
0:30.3 | Right. It's still that it's something to live for if this person that I don't even know might potentially like me because it's still that Disney princess within us that just wants to be chosen. |
0:40.0 | Right, and really we've taught people that if you're not chosen there if you're not |
0:44.8 | chosen there's not evidence of the recognition of your value right so even |
0:48.8 | relationally we say and we did this person right you know you you who I have put on the pedestal of like my value of myself if you don't choose me then this is evidence that my dad never loved me |
1:00.8 | like that is literally what we do. |
1:03.0 | Exactly. |
1:04.0 | You know, and I always say to people that when you lose something that you place your value in, |
1:09.8 | it's to remind you that it doesn't live there. Welcome to let go. |
1:14.0 | Just flow, soon to let go. |
1:16.0 | Just flow, |
1:18.0 | I'm the one I've been waiting for. |
1:20.0 | Welcome back to the highest Self Podcast. My name is Sahara Rose and on this |
1:26.4 | podcast I love to take spirituality and matters of the heart and make it really |
1:31.1 | modern grounded fun and relatable into your life. |
1:34.8 | For me, the spiritual journey has been the journey back into love. |
1:39.3 | My own divorce and heartbreak taught me more about myself than anything in my whole entire life and I would |
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