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Christian Sexuality - Java with Juli

#561 Help for Christian Wives Who Don’t Like Sex

Christian Sexuality - Java with Juli

Authentic Intimacy®

Julislattery, Society & Culture, Authenticintimacy, Ihatesex, Christian, Relationships, Pornography, Biblicalsexuality, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Ismasturbationasin

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 7 April 2025

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

We’ve talked about the fact that many women struggle to ‘flip the switch’ and enjoy married sex, and we’ve talked about what might contribute to that. But we haven’t talked about what husbands can do to help their wives enjoy sex.

Juli shares a conversation from Gary Thomas’ Podcast where she was a panelist alongside Debra Fileta and Belah Rose.

 

Host: Gary Thomas

 

Featured Speakers: Dr. Juli Slattery, Debra Fileta, MA, LPC and Belah Rose

 

Gary’s Website: garythomas.com

Gary’s Newsletter: garythomasbooks.substack.com

 

Book: Married Sex by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta, MA, LPC

Book: Rethinking Sexuality by Dr. Juli Slattery

Book: God, Sex and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery

 

Juli’s Website: authenticintimacy.com

Debra’s Website: debrafileta.com

Belah’s Website: delightyourmarriage.com

 

Please support Joy and Zack Skarka on GoFundMe

 

Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey friend. Before we jump into today's episode, I want to make you aware of one of our co-workers

0:08.0

who is facing some really tremendous challenges. Dr. Joyce Garca has been with authentic intimacy for five years,

0:15.7

and you might have heard her on this podcast or maybe even read the book that we wrote together called Her Freedom

0:21.8

Journey. Well, about six months ago, Joy's husband, Zach, was diagnosed with pretty aggressive

0:28.2

brain cancer. Now, Joy has been supporting Zach through treatment, hospital, stays, chemotherapy,

0:34.9

and some complications that he's walked through from the treatment.

0:40.3

And just a few weeks ago, really the unthinkable happened. Joy herself was diagnosed with

0:46.0

invasive breast cancer. Now this is a young couple, they're in the early 30s, and they

0:51.0

have two little children. Trinity, their daughter is three, and

0:54.5

Luther's son is two. So now they are both in treatment, they are unable to work, and need help

1:01.3

caring for their children. Well, I wanted to make you aware of this needs so that you can

1:06.2

pray for joy in her family and consider helping with some of their practical needs.

1:11.5

You can find out more about supporting them at the website, Give and Kind, and just put their names in, Joy or Zach Skarka.

1:19.9

That's Given Kind, and we will also include a link in our show notes.

1:24.4

Hey, thanks so much for your prayer and support for Joy and Zach.

1:32.3

Well, hey, friend. Welcome to another episode of Java with Julie, hosted by me, Julie Slattery. This podcast is listener-supported, and it's an outreach of authentic intimacy which is a ministry

1:44.3

helping you make sense of God and sexuality well I'm excited to share a special

1:49.7

episode with you today specifically addressing how women can learn to enjoy sex

1:55.2

so a few months ago I was invited to speak about this topic on a panel that

2:00.5

was hosted by Pastor

2:01.7

Gary Thomas, alongside counselor and author Deborah Filetto and also Bella Rose of Delight

2:08.5

Your Marriage. And today you get to hear us talk about where this issue stems from

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