599: What Men + Women Really Think In Relationships + Dating with Aaron Doughty

Highest Self Podcast®

Sahara Rose

Mental Health, Wellness, Spirituality, Millennial, Religion & Spirituality, Meditation, Health & Fitness, Ayurveda, Manifestation, Purpose, Ascension

4.8 • 6K Ratings

🗓️ 22 April 2025

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

Have you been asking yourself lately:

What the actual f* is going on in relationships right now?!

Because SAME.

So I brought back my soul bro, spiritual philosopher, and YouTube king himself—Aaron Doughty—to channel the masculine, while I spoke on behalf of you: The divine feminine, goddess-coded, shadow-integrating, boss babe who just wants a relationship that actually feels good.

And let me tell you… we WENT IN.

We talk about:

The three levels of consciousness in dating + relationships (yes, David Deida style)
The unconscious roles of victim, perpetrator, and rescuer—and how we’re all playing them
Why you might be confusing love with a full-time healing project
What to do if your partner isn’t growing with you
How to stop being your partner’s coach and start being their equal
And why some relationships are meant for love, joy, and family—not shadow work 24/7

We also get super real about the fantasy so many spiritual women are holding onto:

That someday, someone will come along who’s fully healed, fully conscious, and doesn’t trigger any part of your trauma…

Yeah. About that..

This episode is your permission slip to stop fixing, stop overanalyzing, and stop trying to spiritually engineer your soulmate into existence.

Because the tea is: maybe the healing is in letting go of the need to “do the work” for your partner—and finally trusting yourself to choose peace, clarity, and connection.

This one’s for the girlies who are tired of dating emotional projects, want actual polarity, and are ready to understand wtf is really going on between men and women right now—from a high-vibe, grounded, actually-helpful perspective.

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0:00.0	What the fuck is going on in our relationships? We're going to talk about relationships.
0:04.3	Aaron Dowdy, a fan favorite. It's one of my dear soul bros. So I'm going to be channeling the voice
0:08.8	of the feminine. And he's going to be channeling the voice of the sacred masculine. Hopefully
0:12.7	we don't get into a massive fight from this. How do you know if someone's the one?
0:16.3	One of the best ways to meet the one. I always pay attention to what energy am I in. I recognize that everything
0:22.1	in my life is such an equal reflection to the energy I'm embodying, that it will naturally
0:26.3	attract somebody that complements that. It's funny because every time we podcast, they're like,
0:29.9	why aren't Sahara and Aaron together? Would you like business networking? Imagine us in a relationship.
0:34.8	We would be like, what do you think about happening this? We wouldn't shut up and then we would like go into our funnels.
0:39.8	Yeah.
0:40.5	Do I want to be around somebody that isn't in spirituality?
0:43.9	I'm working, making spiritual content six to eight hours a day.
0:47.5	Do I need to have certain conversations at night?
0:50.6	If a man says, I'm not where I want to be in my career, you deserve better.
0:54.7	What do we do?
0:57.8	I've been in that situation where I've been that person that says that.
0:59.0	And here's what I learned about myself.
1:01.9	Where are all the spiritual bros at who aren't buck boys?
1:02.6	Come on.
1:04.4	I don't know yet.
1:05.5	I think.
1:07.6	So I will share my vulnerable story.
	...

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