#638: When Life Feels Unfair
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-
Trish Blackwell | Life Coach, Confidence Coach, Mindset Coach
4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 11 February 2025
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever looked at someone else’s life and thought, Why does everything seem so easy for them while I’m over here struggling?
Maybe you’ve been working hard for a promotion, only to watch someone less experienced get it.
Maybe you’ve dreamed of having a family, but infertility has left you heartbroken. Maybe you grew up in a family that never really saw you, never really supported you, and now you’re left wondering how much further ahead you’d be if you had a different start in life.
Life isn’t always fair. And if you’ve ever felt like you got the short end of the stick, this episode is for you.
In this episode, we’ll talk about:
✔ How to stop comparing your struggles to someone else’s success
✔ The mindset shift that will help you let go of resentment
✔ Practical ways to move forward when life feels like it’s working against you
You don’t have to stay stuck in frustration. You don’t have to let disappointment define you. You have more power than you think—and today, I’m going to show you how to take it back.
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I don't need things to be fair; I accept the unpredictability of life.
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| 0:00.0 | Have you ever looked at someone else's life and thought, why does everything seem to be easy for them while I'm over here struggling? |
| 0:10.1 | Maybe you've been working hard for a promotion only to watch someone less experienced or less qualified get it. |
| 0:16.7 | Maybe you're dreaming of having a family, but infertility has left you heartbroken. Maybe you grew up |
| 0:23.8 | in a family that never really saw you, never really supported you. And now you're left wondering how much |
| 0:28.0 | further ahead you would be if you'd had a different start in life. Here's the truth. It's not fair. |
| 0:37.0 | And life isn't fair. And if you've ever felt like you've gotten the short |
| 0:41.2 | end of the stick, this episode is for you. We're going to talk about how to change the narrative, |
| 0:49.5 | how to change how you think when unfairness is surrounding you, is making you feel like you're drowning, |
| 0:57.3 | making you want to throw your hands up, throw in the towel, and say, why me? You know you don't |
| 1:02.4 | want to have a victim mindset, but it's hard when everything seems so unfair. So life's unfair |
| 1:10.2 | moments were not meant to break you, but to build you up. You don't |
| 1:15.0 | have to stay in frustration. This episode is going to change the way you think about fairness. |
| 1:20.4 | Let's dive in. You're listening to the Confidence podcast, the go-to coaching podcast, |
| 1:26.0 | oozing with motivation, and easy to implement steps that help you |
| 1:30.5 | to be bold and confident in life. I'm your host, Trish Blackwell, internationally recognized |
| 1:36.5 | confidence coach, bestselling author, and founder of the College of Confidence. I teach go-getters |
| 1:41.6 | in life how to master their self-talk, turn down the |
| 1:45.2 | volume of self-doubt, and get more results in life so that you can be the difference maker |
| 1:51.6 | and world changer God created you to be. You were made for more. And today's episode will help |
| 1:58.2 | you tap into it. Let's go. |
| 2:05.2 | Hey guys, I'm Trish Blackwell and you're listening to The Confidence Podcast. |
| 2:12.4 | This is episode 638, When Life Feels Unfair. We're going to be talking about how to stop comparing your struggles to someone else's struggles. We're going to talk about the mindset |
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