Most people would say like either one don't do fuck by these are friends of benefits or two don't try to make it anything more

For us if you're not able to make love properly to one another then I don't think we would have been in this at all

So do you feel like you got into it being like I want you to be my wife and this is where we're starting?

100% no 100% no I was just like you are a really cute girl who I get along a lot with and the more I hang out with you

The more I want to hang out with you like the the spark was like

Like how good the sex was you know like we had like really good sex and then oh like wait a minute

We can actually also really get along and like talk. I just heard a story yesterday of

Someone going on a first date and talking about attachment styles and then in real time being like ah

That's not gonna work for me because my attachment style is different than yours

I'm like what the heck is wrong with you like according to a singles in America study

55% of people have had a friends with benefits and that's a relationship where two people

Agree to have a sexual relationship based on convenience and a social relationship without a romantic commitment and

So of the people in this particular study 40% said that they are friends with benefits or at least one of them

Eventually turned into a long-term love affair. So is that stat along with the personal experience of the guests on this episode

Along with my personal experience enough to convince you that

Frequently fucking first and then figuring out the rest later is actually the way to go to form long-term bonds

It works for me happily married now for three years

I believe that it is important to get to know the person

Because I believe that sex can cloud your adjustment of the person. I do believe in

Sex first, but only if I pick up on the vies that your relationship material I

Was only friends with benefits with people that I didn't see a

Possibility of like a relationship. I'm kind of over that to be real

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