From San Diego, California, this is the one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone,

romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Delorento, your co-host along with my beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world,

thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

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dot com. In today's episode we're talking about breaking the conflict cycles the two views seem to keep repeating

There's an anonymous quote that says in any conflict be sure you know what you really want and this is the key

part and whether what you are doing is actually helping you get there which I think is we talk about conflict in marriage that's a really

big thing and that's what we're going to be digging into in today's episode because I

think sometimes we don't know what we want and sometimes our actions don't exactly get us to where we want to go.

Yeah. Just going to put it out there. Just going to put it out there. But you know for

those of you that have been listening for a long time and those of you that are

brand new for welcome, we start every episode with a hug and a

hugs an opportunity to celebrate what you're doing in your marriage to talk about

the breakthrough that that other couples in the one family are having and this this hug came from an email that

we recently received that said I recently found your podcast and I've been listening

non-stop for the past two or three weeks I've gotten a friend couple to partner with

my husband and I and we are going to try the six pillars of intimacy workbook

We just purchase the books online and we're waiting for the delivery

I love this because the accountability, just as I know,

the accountability of doing it with another couple is huge.

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