From San Diego, California, this is the one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone,

romancing is fun, and scheduling sex is taking the guesswork at a wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Delorenso, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife Elisa from coast to coast and around the world. Thank you for joining us

It's time to talk sex love and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 858-76563 or send us an email to

hugs at one extraordinary marriage.com. In today's episode we're discussing

what to do when your spouse suggests an activity and you think to yourself

I don't know if I want to do that

That's happened a lot not just in our marriage, but probably in yours as well.

We're going to be talking about it in today's episode, but first I just want to share this

quote from Louis C.K. that says, feeling unsure and lost is a part of your path.

Don't avoid it. See what those feelings are showing you and use it.

We're going to be talking about that as you come up against those activities that you aren't

quite sure you want to do. But first we start every episode with a hug and a hug is really an

opportunity for us to share what you're doing share the breakthroughs that you had

share with the two of you are being intentional and this hug comes from a message that

we receive that starts with

We have been writing eBikes together for more than five years. Personally, I didn't know that eBikes have been around more than five years.

Okay, well that was like news to me.

Goes on to say I've been an avid mountain biking for a long time. I needed something to ride on my

off days. So I got an e-bike so I could still ride and let my body recover from mountain biking.

Really good option there. I like that.

After six months or so I bought one for my wife.

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