84: The TRUTH About Freaky Women and Men Who Can’t Stay with Them feat. Ashley Cobb

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 16 August 2023

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

Do you marry the person that you have the best sex with?

Ashley Cobb opens up about being the best every man has ever had and also struggling to find a man who’s capable of having her. Plus the men previously known as Enjoy the Podcast link up to share their insights on the Madonna Whore complex.

So, this complex describes a psychological phenomenon in which a man's perception of women is divided into two distinct categories: the Madonna and the whore. The Madonna is perfect, pure, and really caring. She's the nurturing type and has qualities like innocence and morality. This side of the complex is associated with safety, comfort, and connection. The whore, on the other hand, is associated with sexual desire, sensuality, and eroticism. This side of the complex involves fantasies or desires for more adventurous or taboo experiences and whores are seen as mysterious and unpredictable.
If men have this complex and subscribe to its ideologies that a woman is either pure innocence or pure erroticism, it makes it tough for him to see one woman as both a sexual partner and someone he could have a real, serious relationship with.

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0:29.0	Do you marry the person that you have the best sex with?
0:32.0	Because I've had men who unboxed me about their wives or girlfriends
0:37.0	and the question I always ask them is, well, how long have they been this way?
0:42.0	And usually the question is, they were like this the whole time.
0:44.0	And I'm like, well, if you knew that she didn't like to do A, B and C and you like A, B and C, why did you marry her?
0:52.0	Ashley Cobb opens up about being the best every man has ever had
0:56.0	and also struggling to find a man who's capable of having her, all of her.
1:02.0	And sometimes I wonder if, you know, I can have it all, whatever that looks like.
1:08.0	Can I have the career that I'm having?
1:11.0	Can I have the husband, right?
1:14.0	And how does that, I don't know make you feel?
1:16.0	Um, kind of scary.
1:19.0	Plus, the men previously known as Enjoy the Podcast link back up to come on here to share their insights
1:25.0	on the Madonna Horror Complex.
1:26.0	And if you're not really quite sure what that means, no stress, that means that you are in the perfect place
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