Hi, friends. This week I'm going to teach you how to navigate being petty.

Really, I'm going to tell you situations when you need to be understanding versus when you

need to match someone's energy and give them what they're giving you because sometimes that's

warranted. And I'm going to be headed on friendships and relationships, all the supplies to everything.

Anytime someone is like, see me like they're playing with you, this is how to navigate it.

But the whole thing with being petty and navigating this situation of when to be understanding versus

match to energy, you have to be certain and you have to be strategic before you start pulling

some petty little games because you could look crazy and we don't want to do that. We want to be

crazy and nobody know. And one of the biggest things you guys ask me about is people not putting

effort back into you and kind of when to leave. And the first thing I want to say is a lot of you

are hurting your own feelings. I used to be one of these people where I would just hurt my own

feelings because I expected too much from someone who couldn't give it to me. And this comes from

unrealistic expectations of the person you are dealing with. So step one with all this is assess

this person and their life fully. How likely is it that this person that you want to either

be friends with or date? How likely is it for them to be as close or involved in your life as

you want them? Like you got to check their life. You got to assess their goals. Like what are

their goals? What are they working toward? What are they working on? Where is a lot of their energy

and time being spent? You also have to look at their lifestyle. Is it inconvenient to see you?

Is it inconvenient to hang out with you and make time for you? You got to set the expectations

for real. Also look at the people they already have in their life. Do they already have a ton

of friends? Do they already have a ton of potential little people they might be playing with?

Do they have like a bunch of people in their business side? Like how many people are actually in

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