Today my guest is Kaye and her work is on her father as a Christmas gift. He gave his daughter's money and

he gave one of the sisters more money than the other because she needed a car. And Kay was not the one that got the

money for the car and she is she has she did not do well with it. I love that you've joined us and then we take a look at what's fair and what's not.

Welcome to the work.

Hello, hello, hello, hello. What's going on? Kay. Hello. Hello, this is my first time here, so I didn't, I didn't expect you to say my name first. Oh my goodness so you this is your first time to drop into this event.

Ever yeah. Well welcome welcome, welcome. Yeah, thank you. So your question, you raised your hand? Yeah, so I noticed the brief that if I've done this then I could raise my hand.

Oh, you filled in your worksheet.

Where did you, where did you hear about the work?

I heard it through, so through a colleague I heard about the work.

Uh-huh. Because there's three different areas where I was suffering and she said maybe have a read at the books and when I went to look at the books I discovered here and I thought I'll just sign up and turn up and fill out a work sheet and choose one of the topics out of the three.

Not the biggest one but one of them.

I'm so happy that you raised your hand and so you filled in the worksheet.

So when you answered number one on the worksheet, read what you wrote.

So I've written, I am hurt with dad because he gave my sister 10,000 pounds to buy a new car.

Okay.

And not me.

And not you. you.

Okay, so he gave your sister 10,000 pounds.

When did you find this out?

What was the situation when you heard or discovered that?

I was speaking to him because he'd sent each of us a smaller gift for Christmas.

A lot, a substantial but still smaller amount.

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