#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 4.6K Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2025

⏱️ 112 minutes

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Ty Tashiro is a psychologist, author, and relationship expert. Searching for love can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re trying to find the right person. So what traits should we actually seek out, or avoid, and how can we give ourselves the best chance of finding our person? Expect to learn why happily ever after is so hard to find, why people have difficulty envisioning their romantic future, why we only get 3 wishes for our partner, the biggest mistakes people make when choosing a long-term partner, why some people are drawn to relationships that are really tough, if it is possible to optimise your chance of finding the right partner by increasing your odds of timing and randomness and much more… Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Get the Whoop 4.0 for free and get your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom Get up to $50 off the RP Hypertrophy App at https://rpstrength.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 10% discount on all Gymshark’s products at https://gym.sh/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM10) Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59 #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I hear that I've got you on to creatine and protein powders.
0:04.4	Life changing.
0:05.5	I got to say I listened to an episode of yours about a year ago with Peter Attea.
0:11.5	And the two of you got me on creatine, got me on protein powder.
0:17.5	And I have never, I mean, this is the best shape I've been in in decades so let go yeah yeah I mean I'm not
0:24.5	the same level you guys are at but for my modest goals it's it's been it's been really tremendous so I
0:32.6	appreciate that think about how many better relationship outcomes are downstream from you being a bit more jacked
0:40.9	over the last 12 months from me and peter talking shit about how good creatine and protein powder
0:45.9	is that the world is interconnected tie everything is this big sort of mess look dude i uh i i hope that
0:52.7	you've had your creat creating this morning because I've
0:54.8	fallen in love with your work, Dr. Shannon Curry a couple of weeks ago, introduce me to you,
0:58.2	and I think your stuff's so great. You know, this real evidence-based science-backed look at relationships,
1:04.3	attachment, love, what it is, what predicts effectiveness, red flags, green flags. I want to do a
1:10.5	real full run through today.
1:13.4	Great. Looking forward to it. Awesome. Okay. Happily ever after. How come it's so hard to find?
1:21.9	Oh, this is a long story. It gets a little depressing. I promise people have a better story as we go along here.
1:29.1	But, you know, the two things people really want when they sit down and think about it is they want a relationship that's happy.
1:35.4	I think that's the more obvious thing. But they can forget that, hey, we also want something that's going to be stable and last.
1:41.1	You don't want to have something that flames out after two or three years.
1:50.5	And so, happily ever after actually is a phrase that captures that well. And if you look at the data on that, happily ever after is really elusive for modern love. So I think a lot of people
1:57.2	are familiar with the divorce statistics, but let me break that down with a little bit more detail.
2:02.5	So the divorce rate for first marriages is somewhere between 41 and 43%.
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