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Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

94: Self Love: My Key to Not Being Blinded By Hurt and Constant Criticism

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

55.5K Ratings

🗓️ 25 October 2023

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Are you struggling to understand what real self love looks like? Do you find yourself getting hurt or blinded by pain and not being able to move forward? In this special video, Shan Boodram will answer your questions on how to heal from hurt and cultivate a deeper sense of self love. Get ready for some never before heard revelations with some timeless gems - it’s time to discover the key to unlocking true peace and freedom. Tune in now and learn how real self love can free you from pain and hurt by embracing the nature of those very things.

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0:00.0

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0:06.2

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0:30.3

She said, I used to think that I wasn't good enough, now I know I am too good for most

0:35.1

of the men.

0:37.1

I wanted to read this one because I don't think that this is self love.

0:41.9

I think that this is self soothing, like a pacifier or a binky, if you're in America,

0:48.8

is not a meal, it's not milk that you're putting in a baby's mouth, it's something that

0:53.4

provides opportunity for suckling, but there's like no actual substantial nourishment

0:58.5

there.

0:59.5

And whenever we do that, when we use self love as a way to elevate ourselves above other

1:06.6

people, that's not real love because I think real love is just seeing the good in everybody.

1:13.3

And when you can genuinely see the good in yourself, you can see it in everybody else.

1:19.1

If you're still classifying as some people is not good enough, some people is bad, and

1:23.5

you are good, you are still leaving the door open for you to be a bad person.

1:27.7

You're leaving the door open for you not to be good enough because the only thing that's

1:31.3

stopping you from being them is one decision, one action.

1:35.8

That's so fickle, love shouldn't feel that fickle, it shouldn't feel moment to moment

1:41.3

decision to decision.

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