Let's talk about age gaps specifically when the woman is younger and the man is much older and moreover

Let's talk about why some people namely are starring guests in O'Connor like it that way

I find older men for for the most part,

they're more self-aware.

I don't know, there's a lot of benefits to older men.

They have a skin care routine.

So if I forget my shit at home,

I could be like, oh, babe, give me that pawn scream you know I like an early dinner I like going to bed early and while Anna has always felt that silver is sexy in her younger years she wishes that she dated more in her age range, and she would give that

advice to 20-year-olds today. I would say if you're in your 20s, don't date anyone older than 30,

honestly. In my early 20s, I dated a lot of older people and I don't think it served me. I think I think there was something wrong with them to be attracted to to me. Tell me more about that.

Love is and friends.

I'm gonna take you on a trip baby.

I don't pretend I say love is and friends.

I'm gonna hold you down down to the end.

I say, Hi there, lovers and friends friends welcome to the podcast called the same damn thing I just said my name is shambudram

I'm a public facing sex and relationship expert I'm the host of this podcast and

we have been rocking for 100 or coming up on 100 episodes and this is our first time

talking about the traditional age gap and I say traditional because when people hear that they think younger woman older man and that is

exactly what we are touching on today specifically what our guest Anna

is talking on from her lived experience.

So while you could obviously see this with your eyes,

I want to just state that this conversation is sensitive

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