Bob's Return to Butler Syndrome and Other Things
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 7 October 2022
⏱️ 60 minutes
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Summary
00:00 Bob's Return to Butler Syndrome and Other Things
00:35 Betrayal trauma
03:10 Emotionally distant
04:59 Butler syndrome
31:21 Charities & OPP
34:33 Kirk & Bob's first impressions of each other
35:48 Resentment
40:30 Colleen's retirement
42:33 Tics but not Tourette's
46:52 Multiple diagnoses
51:07 Minimizing romantic anxiety
54:33 Difficulty identifying emotions
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob, let's try to actually answer all those questions people submitted over that survey that was sent out a few weeks ago |
| 0:07.0 | What do you say? I love it your eyes are bigger than your question list |
| 0:10.1 | Let's do it. This is the Psychology and Seattle podcast. I'm your host Dr. Kirkhan. I'm a therapist and a professor |
| 0:15.2 | I am your friend from graduate school and also a therapist in practice here in Seattle |
| 0:19.2 | Let's see how it goes. I'm gonna give us one minute on this one Bob. Chloe wants to know. Why are you an awesome therapist? |
| 0:24.7 | Oh no, Chloe just says Bob. You're an awesome therapist. Oh, thank you, Chloe. That's all Chloe says |
| 0:29.8 | I can get in under the minute on that one. Deedra says how do I healthily recover from betrayal trauma one minute Bob go |
| 0:37.5 | Yeah, that's a good question |
| 0:39.9 | I think it's okay to be prepared for that to haunt you for a while |
| 0:44.3 | You'll get into another relationship. I hope and somebody decent who doesn't you know betray you |
| 0:49.3 | I hope and likely to be triggered. I know I got triggered years after a betrayal |
| 0:54.5 | I got triggered by something that happened between me and Colleen innocent |
| 0:57.7 | She didn't betray me. It was just she was actually just going to yoga and it for some reason but it triggered off my betrayal blah blah blah |
| 1:05.2 | um |
| 1:06.0 | So it's gonna happen and it's okay |
| 1:08.8 | having a partner understand it is probably really useful |
| 1:11.9 | um |
| 1:12.4 | Doesn't mean anything about the partner just just sometimes it happens and I my guess is over time |
| 1:18.7 | With successful just like some care about that as it goes you'll be all right |
| 1:23.3 | It'll it'll settle it'll settle enough. It'll settle enough |
| 1:26.9 | Yeah, I would add to that by saying the two pillars to change and once personality is |
| 1:34.7 | awareness and corrective experiences |
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